3 STEPS TO ACHIEVE THE BEST RESULTS OUT OF ANYONE
Updated: Sep 9, 2018
I am not much of into pleasing people but I do like people in general, so whenever I like something about them I tend to appreciate it and hence I come across as people’s pleaser but I genuinely compliment them whole heartedly (maybe sometimes not). And I observed that in return they appreciate you too ( Gives me boost!). I feel good, I feel energetic & lively. So why don’t we do it on a regular basis? If we practice it frequently then I believe we can definitely achieve good results not out of others but ourselves too!
So here are my 3 steps to achieve the best outcome out of anyone :-
I don’t know why people don’t appreciate each other that often. Even my husband takes time to give me a simple compliment on my face (I have to ask him to do that) but he often do that behind my back and I am like, if you are complimenting me I should at least know about it, if I am not aware of it then what’s the use?
So if someone is doing something good or looking nice, just say it, I know it is not a big thing but they tried their best to look good or worked hard on something for days. Hence, just for the sake of their effort, appreciate them. They'll feel good about it afterwards (seriously who won’t?), cause you just made someone’s day! And with this appreciation they will sure always try work better to gain more and more appreciation.
People are different. Respect their way of working. Find the good in that and try to add value to that without disrespecting them. Many times I work my ass off to achieve a design but then the client just rejects it without hearing my side of the story and then when I redo that work it's out of discontent. So a polite and effective way can be of improvising on design and bringing in the best versions from of all the parties. Respect and accept people as who they are and when you do that it will help you achieve the best out of them for sure!
Encouragement is so essential for all relationships! We think people in our lives don’t need it that much but honestly everyone does, encouragement is helpful in building faith and loyalty. If I don’t believe in you then why would I encourage you to do it? Hence a boost of honest encouragement will sure push everyone to success.
These are just simple things, but we rarely implement them. How many times have you appreciated you mother’s home cooked food? I know it's a few times but why don’t we do it daily? She also looks forward to that, maybe cooking food is her duty, so I believe, appreciating it is yours then!
Did you like my 3 steps? Do share your feedback too.